New Law Being Used to Spread LGBT Gender Identity Ideology into CA Public Schools

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The California Family Council was contacted recently by a military mom named Amy Haywood living in the San Diego area who was alarmed about the age-inappropriate LGBT content her child had assess to in her public school. Amy launched herself into an in-depth research project using skills she gained while working as a legislative aid on Capitol Hill for former Pennsylvania Congressman and outspoken Christian Joe Pitts.  She discovered the LGBT content coming to every California public school was about to increase dramatically because of the implementation of the Fair Education Act, SB 48. What she found was so well put together, we wanted to share it with you. Read her article below.

By Amy Haywood

Something odd is happening in California. Historic and unprecedented changes that will affect millions of children are about to hit our schools; even though it is one of the most controversial topics in the history of mankind, I hear NO ONE talking about it. In November, the California State Board of Education is set to adopt new textbooks for history and social sciences that will carry out the mandates of California Senate Bill 48 (SB48), the FAIR Education Act, which provides for the inclusion of the Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgender (LGBT) perspective in K-12 textbooks.

I first learned about the issue because my 8-year-old had access to a program through her public school called BrainPop (this was material that had to go through the district, so I do not believe teachers even realize that this information is available. Note: We have only had excellent teachers at Willow Grove, and I do not fault them for any of this material that is provided by a PUSD-approved vendor). While perusing the site I came across information under the heading “Sex Determination.” It described chromosomal abnormalities that caused babies with male chromosomes to be born with female reproductive organs. It urged children with questions to contact the Intersex Society of North America. Under the “Sports” heading for this topic of sex determination, children could learn about athlete Caster Semenya. Many questioned whether or not she was a female. A professor of bioethics was quoted as saying, “‘There isn’t really one simple way to sort out males and females…Genes, hormones, and genitals are pretty complicated…Biology does not fit neatly into simple categories.’”

I wondered how it was legal for this age-inappropriate information to be allowed into an elementary school without parental permission.  As I dug for information, I learned that not only was it legal because of SB 48, it was about to be pushed even more aggressively once new textbooks were adopted in 2017. The Act mandates the inclusion of the LGBT perspective in school curricula (K-12), and it prohibits instruction that would adversely reflect on religion and the LGBT community.

I viewed the testimony from the bill’s March 23, 2011 hearing in the CA Senate Education Committee. One of the bill’s opponents, a retired psychologist, Dr. Robert Evans, raised some valid questions about the proposed language when he asked,“First, I am wondering if… in adding sexual orientation and religion to the list of characteristics for which instructional material shall not reflect adversely…, how would one responsibly teach concerning a religion that holds a less than favorable view of homosexuality without such instruction, per se, reflecting adversely on that religion?”

Senator Alan Lowenthal dismissed his concern saying, “We take five years before we get things into the textbooks, and so I’m sure that will be dealt with if this bill moves forward.”

This issue was never addressed.

Evans also pointed out that the language confuses characteristics that are chosen versus characteristics that are ingrained in one’s DNA. He said that in “adding the role and contributions of lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender Americans and European Americans to the list of groups of people…that are required to be included, that… it confuses two different classifications of traits not two different classifications of persons…one that is innate and one that is a list of characteristics and/or choices that have not to date been conclusively demonstrated to be innate.”

This is a valid concern that was not addressed.

Dr. Miriam Grossman, a medical doctor with training in pediatrics and psychiatry, shared with the committee from her expertise in child development. She claimed that SB 48 was “based on seriously flawed thinking…” and she had “…deep concerns about the consequences to the children…” of California if it became law.  The authors of the bill “ignored fundamental principles of child development.” Grossman stressed that there are differences in the way children and adults “process and integrate information and experiences,” and some facts “a child cannot easily assimilate because he simply lacks the tools to do so; he is immature and can be overwhelmed and confused more easily than adults.”

Grossman explained that small children do not have the ability to understand “the idea of transgenderism—that a person can feel trapped in the wrong body…that the person feels that nature made a mistake and that this idea of going to a doctor and asking the doctor to remove a normal body part; this is confusing and frightening to children….” Acknowledging that such ideas are hard for adults even to understand, Grossman concluded there is no way to explain such a concept in an age-appropriate way. She claimed that the bill ignores standard child psychiatry material in regard to gender permanence, which is a developmental milestone that is reached by 6 or 7 years of age.

Grossman emphasized that children are not “miniature adults,” and “it is our responsibility to protect children as best we can from exposure to facts and experiences that they are not equipped to handle.” She also stated her belief that it’s possible to “teach children the importance of respect and tolerance in a manner that is consistent with child development and biological truths.”

Despite these serious concerns, and those raised by many other witnesses, the FAIR Education Act passed in 2011 and took effect in January of 2012—but the questions Evans and Grossman raised remain unanswered.

Today we are seeing the effects of this poorly written law coming to fruition. The textbooks up for consideration will incorporate the mandates of this law. The proposed textbooks are searchable online at the California Department of Education (CDE) website, so I searched several of the textbooks and found quite a bit of one-sided material aimed at normalizing these issues that are still dividing our country.

Just to show a couple of examples, in Pearson’s myWorld Interactive 2, Chapter 5 teaches second graders about Jose Julio Sarria, a Californian who ran for public office in the sixties. The text reads:

“He decided to be honest. He told people he was gay and that sometimes he dressed as a woman. He was the first person to do this when running for office. He did not win. But he made people know they had to pay attention to the gay community.”

Children are then prompted to write about how Sarria’s honesty was inspirational to others.






Additionally, Pearson’s myWorld Interactive 3, on a lesson about “California Heroes,” introduces transgender activist Chaz Bono, and informs third graders that “gender refers to whether someone is male or female. Transgender people feel that their gender is the opposite of what it was at birth. Bono was born female, but always felt male. He changed his gender and today lives as a man. Bono and other activists fight against discrimination and other stereotypes of their community.”

I reviewed all of the texts for elementary school, and I was alarmed at the content, so I submitted a comment in anticipation of the public comment meeting to be held in August. I informed some of my friends about this issue, but it was complete news to them.

In early September, I asked an Education Programs Consultant in the Curriculum Frameworks Unit at CDE to send me a link to all of the written public comments and a link to the audio files of the meeting, which he did. In a very cursory search through pages of public comments, and on the topic of inclusion of LGBT material, I could only find one statement in outright opposition—and that was my own. Many were opposed to some of the textbooks, but only because they deemed them not aggressive enough in carrying out the purposes of the FAIR Education Act. Is it possible that there might only be one person or a handful of people in all of California who are opposed to these changes? This is highly doubtful.

What parents need also need to know about this issue is that there may be a way out. In regard to the implementation of SB48, CDE guidance states that “it falls to the teacher and the local school and district administration to determine how the content is covered and at which grade level(s).” Furthermore, Education Code Section 60002 stipulates, “Each district board shall provide for substantial teacher involvement in the selection of instructional materials and shall promote the involvement of parents and other members of the community in the selection of instructional materials.” Parents need to get involved and speak up in their local school districts.

Also, if parents are not taken seriously, I believe this issue will make its way to the Supreme Court; SB 48 and the resulting textbook changes suppress Constitutional rights by elevating LGBT beliefs over other beliefs.

So, why the eery silence and seeming apathy on an issue of such importance to the well being of our children? I suspect that Chief Justice Roberts’ dissent in the Obergefell v. Hodges ruling that made same-sex marriage legal across the United States foreshadowed this situation exactly when he wrote:

“By the majority’s account, Americans who did nothing more than follow the understanding of marriage that has existed for our entire history—in particular, the tens of millions of people who voted to affirm their States’ enduring definition of marriage—have acted to ‘lock…out,’ ‘disparage,’ ‘disrespect and subordinate,’ and inflict ‘[d]ignitary wounds’ upon their gay and lesbian neighbors.”

Chief Justice Roberts predicted that these “assaults on the character of fair-minded people will have an effect, in society and in court…It is one thing for the majority to conclude that the Constitution protects a right to same-sex marriage; it is something else to portray everyone who does not share the majority’s ‘better informed understanding’ as bigoted.”

As Chief Justice Roberts foretold, people who don’t share the beliefs of the LGBT community are often labeled as bigots. As such, people are afraid to speak up—even though the First Amendment fully supports their right to do so. I suspect many people believe like I do—I support your right to live your life according to what you fervently believe in your heart and mind to be true; but the Constitution prohibits you from using the government to force your sexual orientation and gender identity ideologies on my child causing her to go against the dictates of her conscience. If parents and concerned citizens don’t speak up, I fear for the First Amendment rights of the families and children of California—and, in the long run, the United States.


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  1. As stated this law suppresses our constitutional rights. Though I have many friends and some family who have chosen a different sexual orientation, identity, etc., I do not agree with this developmentally inappropriate curriculum. Parents are required in LAUSD to sign a permission form allowing their adolescent child to obtain a free condom from their school nurse. Yet parents’ opinions were not sought in this matter. Parents have the right to reject this curriculum on behalf of their children. The court does not know each individual child’s developmental understanding and therefore cannot make an objective determination.. This curriculum could be perceived as sexual brainwashing as well as a form of sexual abuse. This ideology is presexualizing our children.

    • I was talking to my sister yesterday and I was flabbergasted when she told me her son who is in 6th grade had a transgender guest speaker! It was a man but he claimed he was neither a man nor a woman. What? Unbelievable, and no parents were notified. I was incensed by this so I did research and found it’s mandatory curriculum. Transgender have a 40% suicide rate and I deem it as a mental illness. I can’t believe they are indoctrinating our kids with this filth!!!

      • As i read all of these ignorant comments probably made by christian upper middle class white people i shake my head to all of the hate towards people who want regular lives just like you. This article is talking about a program that i used and still use in school. in my experience all we used it for was learning about george washington,slavery,trade etc. its not forcing an agenda its educating kids about our world today think about if it was you who was apart of the lgbt community wouldnt you want to be represented…

        • Because someone doesnt believe in schools teaching this to our children, you automatically spew hate against Christians?!! There is NO place for this to be taught in schools. Gender identity???!! What next??? Anything to go against God??? Evil times

        • if they are wanting regular lives …why are they forcing the ideas on little kids ?it is ok to force the lgbt on little kids ?that group is the only one that stands outside with signs ,and protest more than any other group ,and your telling me that they do not get noticed ?please they are on the news every other day about something that they find offensive in America .

    • Well written. The squeaky wheel is getting the grease, but the grease is starting to be applied to inappropriate parts. These current bills are up for Gov. Brown. Email him and let him know your thoughts
      SB 179 changes the definition of gender, and creates a third legal gender: non-binary.
      SB 310 simplifies the process for inmates to change their names and gender while in the custody of state or county prisons.
      AB 569 outlaws religious organizations from having codes of conduct related to abortion, contraception, and sex outside of marriage.
      SB 396 gender identity sensitivity training: Businesses with over 50 employees will be required to provide at least two hours of training and education regarding harassment based on gender identity, gender expression, and sexual orientation. Misgendering will be considered harassment.

    • Carolyn,

      Thanks for reading the article. One immediate action that concerned Californians can take is to send in a public comment (the next meeting is in November, but you can send in comments now) to the State Board of Education to register your opposition to the soon-to-be adopted textbook changes. You can submit a written comment to the History–Social Science Adoption e-mail address at Surely conservatives can beat out the nearly-200 comments that have already registered support of these sweeping textbook changes.

      The public can also attend the final public hearing on November 16/17 (though it hasn’t been posted publicly, so double-check those dates closer to the time) and make public comments in person. Here is the location of the last public meeting (again, double-check closer to the date to make sure the location is still the same): California Department of Education, 1430 N Street, Room 1101, Sacramento, California 95814. Here is the link to CDE’s FAQs about the adoption process:

      It’s extremely important to get opposition to these textbook changes on record, as the other side will claim there was no opposition.

      I have written all of the board members at our school’s PTA in hopes of starting a school-wide dialogue. I’m also planning to reach out to the Foundation members (as they tend to be some of the most influential families in the school). I am meeting with a person at the district to find out the timeline for local adoption. I’m sure there will be opportunity for public comments at your local school board, so that’s an opportunity to speak up. I’m also meeting with our school principal so that she can know at least one parent in our school is watching this situation and has concerns. I would bet that many teachers and administrators are not in favor of these changes, as well.

      So, really, it’s just legwork and speaking up–and having courage to say something so the spiral of silence doesn’t continue and others will be inspired to speak up.

      I hope this helps!

      Thank you!

  2. Thank you Amy Hayward for researching and speaking out on this very concerning matter occurring in California with almost no opposition. Parents desperately need to become informed and then to begin speaking out. I hope this is the beginning.
    There is a group of Concerned Parents in San Diego that is speaking out on another front regarding the sex ed curriculum that has the same features. It is completely age inappropriate and works to normalize adult sexual behaviors. It would be great to speak with you on these matters.
    The petition for Concerned Parents:

    • Thanks, Angie! I’d love to speak with you. I’m in the Poway USD, otherwise, I’d sign your petition. Thanks for speaking out! I’ll message you on FB.

      • Amy, I too am in the Poway USD. We decided to homeschool this year. I am so glad I did. This is truly overstepping the boundaries of parents. This is a total overreach of the school and what they are teaching our innocent children. I am so tired of this ugly agenda getting spewed into the minds of our children. Teachers have enough on their plates and now having to deal with this issue when most are not trained to handle it themselves……. I am so shocked and appalled.

        • Fortunately, Poway has not adopted the HSS Framework as of yet (the district is just in the beginning stages of talking about how they will comply with SB48), so we still have a chance to keep the transformational HSS Framework out of our schools. Many school districts across CA, however, may be under the impression that the HSS Framework adopted by CDE is mandatory, but it is not–and that’s the message that needs to get out all across CA. Local school districts are supposed to have control over how much information about LGBT heroes is included in the curriculum and at what grade level–and parents and teachers are supposed to be involved in these decisions.
          I hope we can count on like-minded homeschooling and private school families to stand with us on these issues and to speak out with us (we all pay taxes, so even if you’re not in the schools, they belong to the people who fund them and you have a right to speak). Thanks for reading the article!

          • Hello Amy,
            My children attend LAUSD . I need your help as this will be implemented next school year and we are told is mandatory for our students. can you please send me any information or forms that can help us take action.
            Thank you

  3. The font used on this page is very faint and hard to read, even worse for the links inside the article. Sorry, I realize I’m older so it may just be me. I did try the same page in both Firefox and Chrome.

    Thanks, this info is pretty disturbing, I appreciate that you letting folks know about it.

  4. Most people don’t even know about this! When I send this info out to friends and family they are stunned! Legislation is passed w/o anyone asking the public for their input or liberals are chosen to respond to what’s going on.
    It’s so very wrong!

  5. I have a 3 Year old and i feel helpless. I’m a Christian that believes in 2 genders and Marriage is between and a Man a Woman that’s how i was raised and i want to pass these values down to my Child. People are selling there soul in this state if i could pick up and leave i would but i cannot. I have my family and life here. I don’t hate the Gay’s i just don’t promote or advocate there lifestyles because it goes against What GOD has created . I don’t want this to be forced to my child i have no idea what to do .

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    • Since this article was published, the programs are no longer online. Only the titles of the approved books are available. Hard copies can be found at Learning Resource Display Centers across the state. Only draft copies will be available at these centers until April or May when the final copies of the books with all of the required revisions and edits will be displayed for the public. See the article for new links that have been added regarding this information.

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  10. Our school district didn’t even wait for textbooks. We just received the sex ed curriculum and the lesson plan resources for discussions on gender are just random websites and youtube videos. How is it possible that these could be “approved resources.” ?

  11. Our granddaughter is now homeschooled because of this gender teaching. First grader. What is wrong with CA.? Is this fair to my grandchild? Where in San Diego can she attend school?

    • I am so sorry and I don’t believe that that is fair at all! We literally moved to another state because I am so tired of parents rights being scoffed at, while they spread their pseudo-science. I work in the healthcare field and the indoctrination of children at schools across California is disgusting and wrong.

  12. We had gotten a handout from my daughters former school letting us know about some of the information that would be covered during their sex ed class in 1st grade. I read over it and noticed it had some content in it that I disagreed with and tried talking to the school where I was promptly shut down and informed that I wasn’t able to take my child out of school for that portion, nor could I sit in. I removed her from the school entirely and moved. The following year we enrolled my daughter in to a different school and what do you know… my 1st grader learned about sex! Many of us parents went to the school and demanded answers about why our children learned about certain sexual positions and what was “consensual!” They were 6 at the time. Both my kids go to a different school in a different state entirely. I am not and will not be privy to the type of bulls*it pseudo science California has chosen to adopt. I am in the healthcare field and trust me when I say… science doesn’t bend to the will of the people. It is fact-based and pretty cut and dried. They need to stop this mess. They’re creating and promoting confusion among developing minds.

  13. my heart hurts so much. there are little options anymore for parents who want to raise our own children and have them learn basic education at school and other essentials at home in the right manner/time.
    My daughter is in Kindergarten and I had to opt her out of those days. apparently being able to opt her out is a blessing. It is sickening. Been praying about homeschool and it’s looking more and more like that’s what we’ll be doing going forward. Our country is in desperate need of prayer and repentance.

  14. I am a transgender female substitute K-8 school teacher in California. Do I have the right to exist in the state of California and do my job? Do I not have the right to teach 5-6 year olds the same as any other teacher? Everyday when I show up to school, the first thing the children will ask is me is whether or not I’m a boy or a girl. I’m 6’4″ tall and I have a male sounding voice, but I have always been a female. It’s not my fault that I was born with a body different than other females. So I tell the students I am a female. Sometimes, I write on the board that I am a transgender woman. I then write out what that means. I write that; Female = Girl Brain/Girl Body; Male = Boy Brain/Boy Body; Transgender Female = Girl Brain/Mixed Gender Body; Transgender Male = Boy Brain/Mixed Gender Body. Every student I have ever taught can easily understand how I explain myself to them because they can see it with their own eyes. I have found that once I explain this, the students accept who I am and then move on with their day because in the grand scheme of things I am just a person no different than anyone else. I have also found that when I don’t explain who I am that things don’t go as well in my classroom. If I simply tell the students that I am a woman, then they think I am lying because what they see doesn’t match their perceptions of most females. And the fact is that they are right. I’m not like most females because I am a transgender female. By explaining what a transgender female is to the students, a sense of trust and understanding is created that makes sense to them. So when I read this article and the responses to it, effectively everyone is saying that I shouldn’t have the same rights as other people in this country. Because if the people on this forum are stating that young children are too young to be exposed to concept of gender or being transgender, then they are saying that they are too young to be exposed to real transgender people. That is just wrong and hateful to denigrate a class of people who did nothing wrong but to be born. It is no different than being a racist and whites telling blacks that they couldn’t use the same bathrooms or drinking fountains simply because they were born with the wrong skin color. There is no difference. Thus far, I have taught over 10,000 students in California within a single year because of the number of school districts I have worked for and the fact that I often go into a new school or a new classroom virtually everyday. It would make my life much easier if gender education were taught on the first day of school as it should be. Prejudice in any form should not exist in this country or in our public schools. If gender education were taught on the first day of each school year, then students would already understand about someone like me before I ever show up in their classroom. I generally don’t face harassment from the younger students, but I do from the middle school children. I have been called a shemale, a transformer, a tranny, a drag queen, and many other slurs. One 8th grade boy who was walking by my classroom door recently said, “I bet you want a ride on this baby cakes.” Very often, middle school boys will call me Sir repeatedly in defiance. That is no different than if someone were to call me the N-word if I was black. So when that happens, I kick them out of my class and write them a discipline referral. When that sort of behavior occurs, I then stand up for myself and for the transgender community to the rest of my class. I talk about bullying and hate speech. I tell them that the suicide rates among transgender people are 10 times higher than the next closest demographic group because of rampant harassment and discrimination. The fact is that 41% of transgender adults and 48% of transgender youth have attempted suicide or were successful. That is an epidemic! It needs to stop. Transgender people are not mentally ill. They are no less capable than any other human, but when the bullying, harassment, and discrimination occurs in every facet of their lives, they often feel so hopeless that they just give up. I explain to my students that they have a moral obligation to stand up to bullying and hate speech when they hear it and to tell the offender to immediately stop. I explain to them that the very lives of transgender individuals and especially transgender youth are in their hands if they don’t take a stand. When this occurs in my classroom, students will always come up to me after class and apologize for the behavior of their classmates and thank me for being a part of their lives. So I know first hand what the power of positive education can do, but I can’t be the only one doing it. It should not be my job. I should not be having to talk about transgender issues every time I enter a classroom. I should just be able to go in and focus on general education no different than any other teacher. It is the responsibility of every school to present a basic gender education so that all students understand that there are more than just males and females. In the state of California, transgender people account for .72% of the population and intersex people account for 1.4% of the population. Combined that is 2,4% of the population. That is a huge number. Considering that the population of California is approximately 40 Million, that means that approximately 1 out of 40 people in California is either intersex or transgender. Is it right for 1 out of every 40 Californian’s to be discriminated against? I should not have to endure what I do simply because I was born this way. It needs to stop and the place for it to stop is in our public schools. Education is the only way to end ignorance and hate.

    • I don’t have a problem with you addressing the students about your transgenderism and teaching about bullying and that they should respect and be kind to everyone. What I do have a problem with is our children being indoctrinated with the confusing message that they can be whatever gender they want to be. God made us male and female and I get it that there are homosexual and transgender people but they are such a small percentage of the people in our country. School curriculum should not be changed and absolutely no first grader should be getting sex education at school. And when I was young sex education was taught in fifth and sixth grades and we were taught about our bodies and how our reproductive organs worked not about the sex act itself. I am appalled when I hear what is being taught in our schools I am a grandmother and I’m ready to start homeschooling my grandchildren because what is being taught is so wrong.

      • It is your job as a grandmother and mother to accept your children the way they are and who they are. To be transgender is NOT a choice. Taliya can’t change herself. It is NOT your job, however, to dictate to your children or grandchildren who they should be. You are supposed to prepare them for life, which includes children knowing about different types of culture and environments in this world. Part of that is teaching them at a young age what these cultures are, so when they grow older, their mind is open to the different types of people in the world. So that when they grow older, they are not ignorant. Saying that there are two genders might be your thinking, but you can’t impose a certain type of thinking onto your grandchildren and force them to be something they aren’t. Sex education can benefit children at that young of an age as well. Maybe they shouldn’t be learning “different positions” but they should understand what sex is , in case they were ever raped or assaulted. Consent is a major part of our society too. You need to understand that these things are put into terms that children can understand and benefit from for the rest of their lives. It shows them how to be respectful and kind to others, even when other people aren’t. They can be whatever gender they want to be, Janet. That is their choice, not yours. And regardless, even if you decide to homeschool them or take them out of school, they will still be that gender, sexuality, or whatever it is that they are. This isn’t new, there have been trans=gender people for as long as you can remember, You cannot expect people to change just because you want them too.

    • We will be Praying for you and all who are confused about who they are and why they were made and put on this earth. Also for those who have been hurt or abused. God is Good!!

  15. The world is not black and white, it is not this way or that way. I don’t think children should be taught in depth about subjects they are not mature enough for. I do believe that discrimination should stop, it should be stopped by teaching respect and kindness to all people no matter what. You can teach kindness at a very basic level that does not expose or possibly persuade a type of ideals. Just like with “fat shaming” you shouldn’t bee mean to them for their size and life choices. But I strongly believe that normalizing obesity and making it seem like a good thing is very dangerous to our society. People die too often as a result of obesity and bad nutrition. Diabeties and cardiovascular illness are a direct cause of obesity. My concern with teaching about transgender is that it teaches impressionable children that if they don’t like something about who they are then they should just change it instead of accepting who they are as they were born. Go ahead and be different (it’s what makes us human) but be different and confident in your own skin.

  16. Wow! Taliya, If you want to change your sexuality that’s you biz but to normalize it and basically say if I don’t accept it Im a bigot. Your example of being born black or white is skewed and misleading. Your facts on transgender suicides is skewed as well. While partly right the other side of these unfortunate suicides are more of mental defect or confusion, to be short. What I don’t want is my child being abused in the school system and being forced to be social engineered into a mindset that is 3% of the population, is goes against our values and I’m not paying taxes for the government to mandate value teaching to my children. IT IS INAPPROPRIATE AND A CULT BEING TAUGHT IN OUR CLASSROOMS. You choose your life, fine, it’s your doing, but keep it out of the classroom. Ergo I should be able to do the same and teach from day one how there are only 2 genders Male and female. This is how we are born one or the other the rest is a lie. But we don’t see that anymore do we?

    • your child’s path is not your path to decide who or what he or she will be or live when he or she grows up and is matured her or his path is her or his own Journey and your path is your own. you may walk with your child on their path but you can not walk it for them otherwise it is a form of abuse and you would be robbing your child of his or her soul purpose of why they are here, in the beginning, your Job as a parent is to love your child also to protect and guide your child in a loving way and to teach you’re to love not to hate or abuse a child with brainwash or labels but To except them for who they are no matter what the situation may be and to love them no matter what as it is their own path and why they are here in the beginning, otherwise if you can not make that commitment then you aren’t fit or ready for Children. A lot of the main roots of issues of today start at home among another root of issues sadly that happens in the world with corruption hate and brainwash humanity is the blame for these heinous acts through control and brainwash and certain religions/ beliefs that are not loving. when you’re only concerned about how you think and feel is not helping anyone those morals has never helped anyone when it comes to negativity or labels that corrupt. I have you to know 90% of suicides have nothing to do with mental illness but it does have everything to do with abuse and being bullied and hate that really needs to change in positive ways. and if we want to see positive changes in the future starting with ourselves is a start. for the record. those innocents who took their lives were cut short by the way we treat one in other its not fair or did they deserve that fate but maybe to them it was a way out and that is what should be a life changer to humanity that we are in dire need of positive change and more love in this world and less hate and corrupt as well as control. shaping out other paths for them when it’s not their place or why they are here we are here to learn and to experience life and to love and be good energy and to set a positive example for the future and to earth herself.

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  19. Taliya…Let me quote just one statement of yours… “I should not have to endure what I do simply because I was born this way.” You are stating here that you were born a female in a male’s body. There is a simple way to resolve this issue. If you believe in God that previous statement is impossible. If you don’t believe in God then anything goes! God is a perfect being and does not make mistakes. To say that God made a mistake and placed a female mind and spirit into a male physique is absurd! And you show your ignorance by even inferring such an aberration. God is perfect and his creations are perfect. You were born into this world a male, it says ‘male’ on your birth certificate…you are male! You can say “black is white” or “down is up” or “right is left” all you want but I’m sorry. So let me make a blanket statement: All transgenders are atheists.

  20. There is no place in any school for this “education.” Everyone is aware of transgenders. Our consciences have been “raised.” We parents are pretty resourceful when it comes to our kids. I was a Tomboy as a kid, outside and active! Thank God my parents didn’t take me in for a transformation just because I enjoyed being faster and stronger than all the boys and girls and preferred wearing my brother’s clothes!

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  22. Sarah, I feel sorry for you. What in the world are you thinking? If you believe in science, like most people do, you have got to acknowledge the FACT that there are ONLY 2 sexes, ONLY 2 genders, MALE and FEMALE. Just look all around you, every living thing. It is only recently in our culture that the self-centeredness of people have not wanted to accept reality and truth so they made up their own “science delusion” as a new truth that everyone should believe and abide by. I will not stand by and watch this delusion take over our young people. I will be a responible parent and teach kindness and love for others, BUT I stand by the TRUTH that there are ONLY 2 sexes, 2 genders, MALE and FEMALE. That is the science I will teach my children. That is TRUTH.

  23. Kim,
    Don’t feel sorry for me. I am an educated individual who understands abstract concepts in today’s society. Feel sorry for your self. If you want to talk about science, about plants and animals, let’s do it. Tell me, do you know what a hermaphrodite is? No? Well, it’s a plant with BOTH male and female reproduction organs. That means that while there may be 2 SEXES(because GENDER is a spectrum) there are people and plants that have both. So, what is being intersex? It is when a human is born with both male and female reproductive organs. This means that this person is also a hermaphrodite for a little while. AND this is a GENETIC abnormality. This is not chemically or mechanically created. It just happens. Now, let’s go back to how you said there are only 2 genders. This is what the dictionary says: a similar category of human beings that is outside the male/female binary classification and is based on the individual’s personal awareness or identity. Do you believe me now? GENDER IS NOT SEX. And I am not delusional, you are, because you refuse to believe SCIENTIFIC reports that explain that gender is a spectrum. So I do believe in science. I also would like to remind you that this isn’t new. This is something that has been happening in many cultures all over the world for many centuries. You can look it up and see for yourself. Also I am a little confused, gender and sex doesn’t have an effect on your sexuality, nor does it change who you are. Being transgender means that you are only one sexuality and that you have been trapped in the opposite genders body. Please, don’t be ignorant. Even if you don’t agree with scientific fact, you should still give your children all the information and let them decide for themselves. The only possible reason you wouldn’t, because this doesn’t harm them in any way, nor does it change their personality or who they are, is because you know you are not correct in this particular statement.

  24. Hello,I read all your article and I found many useful information for me .I am having a situation in my child’s school,There is an alliance called Gay straight alliance that want to put lgbt literature in all the classes from kindergarten to 8 grade .I am concerned about the situation but I am have a better view after reading your article ,Thanks for the advice

  25. I’m confused. What about this material is age inappropriate for children? I would understand if it had to do with sexual intercourse or violence, but that isn’t the case. I understand your desire for equal education and non bias, but if a curriculum is nonbiased then it will allow children to arrive at conclusions themselves having been presented with all the information. It seems to that that is what this law is trying to acheive. Kids are a lot smarter than you give them credit for. As someone who realized their romantic/sexual orientation in elementary and middle school, I can testify that this is something that children are aware of and understand. I personally know many trans people, and they all claim to have realized their gender during early childhood.

    • This is a dispute over how someone’s sex is determined. We tell kids right from birth their sex based on their biology. This is what most parents believe and have believed from the beginning of time. Kids trust adults to tell them the truth and believe whatever they are told. 80% or more of children who don’t feel comfortable with their own sex as a child out grow the feelings by adulthood. In light of these facts, no one should be telling little kids they are trapped in the wrong body. That will only make their misery worse. Feelings are fickle, and we should not be telling kids to trust their feeling to tell them the truth about who they are. We need to reassure confused kids the truth about their sex; that it is fixed and can not be changed. You might think this is biased, but it is one of the most basic truths of the universe. Kids expect their parents to pass along basic knowledge about the world, not leave it up them to figure it out.

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  27. This is wrong. GOD doesn’t make mistakes. I’m glad my kids don’t go to school in California. There school still spank. That’s what California should bring back in school.

  28. Doesn’t anyone read the Holy Bible anymore? It says this is detestable to the LORD. Google it, I’m not making this up. The safest way to raise your kids is to enroll them in a Christian school. This is going to confuse little children and expose them to sexuality. It is perverse. Little children are very impressionable. This is WRONG!

  29. Why is it that politicians, and most members of School Boards are politicians, feel that it is their right to do the job that is for parents? Teach my child to read, write, and do math. Give them physical education time for their physical health and give them a nutritional lunch. Everything else is for parents to teach their children. I am not homophobic and support the LGBT community. This has nothing to do with that. This has to do with politicians and school boards crossing the line between teaching and parenting. I feel that teaching children about when is the time to have heterosexual sex or masturbation, is also out of bounds for schools. I understand teaching the biology part of the anatomy and how it works but that is it. Telling our children about when is the time to engage in sex is for parents to decide to teach their children.
    And I also believe that religion needs to be kept out of public schools as well. Your religious beliefs are for you and your family and for you to teach your children. Religious beliefs should not be forced onto children in school. Why is your religious belief more important or better than someone else’s? I teach my daughter about God and how to have a relationship with him, but I do not think that my views should be curriculum at her school. Schools cannot force children to be tolerant. Unfortunately, intolerance, hatred, and bigotry are learned traits and they are learned at home. All this is going to do is cause division and confrontation and the children will be left utterly confused and not fully understanding what is being taught to them. How is that good education?

  30. I’m in my son’s Brain Pop. I saw the “Sex Determination.” I didn’t see it “urge children with questions to contact the Intersex Society of North America.” Also I don’t see anything on Caster Semenya.

  31. Rosy,
    Fortunately, on 5/16/17, I downloaded the PDFs on Sex Determination that talk about this. Here is the info at the bottom of the Castor Semenya page, so hopefully if you have BrainPop access (and it sounds like you do), you should be able to find it (but it’s always possible it was removed):
    And this is for the page that mentions the intersex society:
    In addition, I will see if CFC can post screen shots or links to the PDFs. Like I said, it’s possible that this information has been removed, but I no longer have access to a BrainPop account, so I can’t check.
    Thanks for reading.

  32. I think and feel this is fantastic it’s been too long a very long wait and struggles for many on their path. it should have always been this way. For too long it’s been forced on to us by humanity and in our own homes parenting brainwashing and shaping out Children’s lives at a young age pretty much-forcing labels into children’s minds in what gender we are supposed to date to me its a form of abuse and one of the main roots of the main problems of the world today among other roots of problems. Television and commercials and certain Religions are just as bad and the blame for these issues. That is not why we are sent here to earth is to follow crowds or to live by our parent’s standards and expectations when we are fully matured and grown. we should love our parents as it should be mutual no matter what the situation may be otherwise I feel people shouldn’t be having children only to corrupt and abuse their children if they are incapable of love then they aren’t fit or ready to make that commitment in having children. it’s not their place to shape our own paths in how we think and feel about love and attraction. we are sent here to this earth to learn and walk our own paths not to follow crowds out of weakness. Humanity has done its share on corruption its gone to far. love is love gender does not define who we love or who we are we are pure energy and we should be loving Energy and spreading love instead of hate and labels and mental abuse no one has that right to do this. parents can walk with their children on their paths but they can not walk it for them and so many parents force this on to kids in the way they think and feel not caring about the child’s feelings or emotions a lot of these kids grow up to be corrupt that is where a lot of crime starts as in deaths because it starts at home and what we watch and listen to, Positive changes are in dire need. I hope this happens all over the world its time for love to embrace.


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